The Elect Lady: Comfort, Calling, and the Song of the Heart in D&C 25

A dovetail joint works because the two pieces are not the same. One has pins and the other has tails. They fit together precisely because they are different. If both pieces were identical, the joint would have no strength. The complement is what makes the connection hold.

D&C 25 is about a complementary joint. Emma Smith is called to be an elect lady. Her role is not the same as Joseph's. It is designed to fit alongside his. The Lord gives her a specific mandate. Comfort Joseph. Act as a scribe. Select sacred hymns. Expound scripture.

What Was Emma Smith's Calling in D&C 25

The Lord addresses Emma as my daughter and an elect lady. This is not a title of status. It is a title of responsibility. She has been chosen for a specific work that no one else can do in quite the same way.

The first part of her calling is to be a comfort to Joseph. The Lord acknowledges that Joseph has been subject to afflictions and that Emma's support is part of how he will endure them. The emotional and spiritual labor of sustaining a prophet is a divine calling in itself.

Hearken unto the voice of the Lord your God, while I speak unto you, Emma Smith, my daughter; for verily I say unto you, all those who receive my gospel are sons and daughters in my kingdom.

D&C 25:1

She is also called to be a scribe and to learn much. The Lord values her education and her ability to write. In the early days of the Church, Emma served as a scribe during the translation of the Book of Mormon. The calling to learn is not limited to formal education. It is a command to grow in understanding.

She is told to expound scripture and to exhort the church. This is remarkable. In a time when women rarely taught publicly, the Lord calls Emma to expound and exhort. She holds spiritual authority to teach and encourage the Saints.

Meaning of Elect Lady in Doctrine and Covenants

The second part of her calling is to select sacred hymns for the Church. Emma is given the responsibility to choose songs that are pleasing to the Lord. This is not about musical taste. It is about spiritual discernment. She is curating the worship atmosphere of the restored Church.

And it shall be given thee, moreover, to make a selection of sacred hymns, as it shall be given thee, which is pleasing unto me, to be had in my church.

D&C 25:11

Verse 12 contains a line I think about often. The song of the righteous is a prayer unto me. Music is not just an ornament to worship. It is worship. A hymn sung with sincerity is as valid as a spoken prayer.

Emma is also warned to beware of pride. Any calling, no matter how sacred, can become a source of pride if the person holding it forgets who gave it. The warning is a reminder that the calling is about the work, not the worker.

This connects to Magnify the Office: Calling, Affliction, and the Work of the Ministry in D&C 24, where Joseph and Oliver are told to magnify their callings. D&C 25 extends the same principle to Emma.

Role of Music in LDS Worship D&C 25

The promise attached to her faithfulness is a crown of righteousness. The reward is not for the office but for the faithfulness with which she carries it out.

I find this section encouraging because it shows that the Lord calls people to roles that fit who they are. Emma was a writer, a singer, a comforter. The Lord used those gifts. He did not ask her to be something else. He asked her to magnify what she already was.

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The section also teaches that the work of supporting someone in a demanding calling is itself a calling. Emma was not just the prophet's wife. She was an elect lady with her own mandate from heaven. The comfort she gave Joseph was not informal support. It was an office.

I think about the people in my life who have held that office for me. The ones who have comforted me when I was discouraged. The ones who have learned alongside me and exhorted me when I needed encouragement. They were not given a formal title but fulfilled the work of one.

Frequently Asked Questions

Was Emma Smith the only woman to receive a specific revelation?

Section 25 is one of the most explicit formal revelations given to a woman regarding her specific office and duties within the restored Church.

What does it mean to be an elect lady?

Being elect means being chosen for a specific purpose. It is a statement of responsibility, not superiority. Emma was chosen to perform tasks critical to the Prophet's mission.

Why is selecting hymns considered a spiritual calling?

Music has a unique power to touch the spirit. By selecting hymns pleasing to the Lord, Emma helped design the spiritual atmosphere of worship.

How can we apply the instruction to beware of pride in our callings?

It means recognizing that success in callings comes from God's grace, not our own merit. True magnification happens when the focus shifts from the person to the purpose.

Closing

A dovetail joint relies on two pieces that fit together without being the same. Joseph and Emma were not the same. Their callings were different. But the joint held.

D&C 25 shows that the Lord calls women and men to specific work. Emma was an elect lady, a comforter, a scribe, a teacher, a curator of hymns. She was not a copy of her husband. She was the piece that fit alongside him.

The joint holds because the pieces are different.

— D.